Ambitious Dads

When Life Hits Hard: Navigating Job Loss, Entrepreneurship, and Emotional Regulation as a Dad: Tony Berardo

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 20 May 2026 20:00:00 -0400

Tony Berardo, a full-time content creator and father to a 2.5-year-old daughter, opens up about the raw realities of modern fatherhood when his wife unexpectedly gets laid off after 10 years with her company. This honest conversation explores the emotional weight of being the sole provider, learning to regulate emotions alongside your toddler, and the constant tension between building a business and being present for your family.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:20] - The Weight of Sudden Job Loss

Tony's wife gets laid off after 10 years with a multi-billion dollar company

Key quote: "Nothing is guaranteed. Even if you're at a big corporation where she thought she was going to retire, and now she just got laid off for no reason."

[00:03:33] - The Entrepreneur Dad's Dilemma

Balancing work-from-home entrepreneurship with wanting to be present for his daughter

Key quote: "I want to work hard and support the family, but I also just want to be with my kid. So that's the struggle."

[00:05:32] - Breaking Down Emotional Walls

Discussion about men's tendency to suppress emotions and the importance of communication in marriage

Key quote: "We put up a wall and we try to be tough and strong for everybody, but mentally we're struggling."

[00:09:45] - The "Other Room" Strategy

Tony's method for self-regulating before speaking to his wife during stressful times

Key quote: "I'm going to go to the other room where she's not in and say it out loud and see if it makes sense."

[00:16:46] - The "One Day" Realization

Prioritizing play time with his daughter over work demands

Key quote: "One day your kid's not going to ask you to play with them. So that hurts if you say, 'Hey, sweetie, 10 more minutes.'"

[00:19:16] - Learning Emotional Regulation Through Fatherhood

How becoming a girl dad forced Tony to develop patience and emotional intelligence

Key quote: "I realized how shitty I am at self-regulating. I realized how angry I can get."

[00:23:50] - Teaching Emotional Regulation Together

Practicing breathing exercises and emotional regulation with his daughter

Key quote: "Kids never listen to what you say, but they're always going to do what you do."

[00:27:10] - The Mirror Moment

Realizing his daughter was copying his behavior with their dog

Key quote: "She said, 'Oliver, enough!' And I was like, do I say that a lot?"

[00:32:25] - Embracing Different Interests

The importance of letting children develop their own hobbies rather than forcing parental interests

Key quote: "I want their hobbies and things that they like to be different than mine."

[00:37:43] - The Dad Connection Gap

Challenges men face in opening up to other fathers about parenting struggles

Key quote: "It's one of those isolating things I think that men just have to get over."

[00:39:52] - The Blowout Story

A humorous tale of an epic diaper disaster at a thrift store

Key quote: "If the wife says pack a diaper bag, just do it, dude."

On June 17th, I’m hosting a free, live workshop, Become a Better Leader By Becoming a Better Dad, for fathers who are tired of living a divided life. We’ll explore how “Default Dad” shows up when you’re tired, overloaded, or distracted, and how those same patterns affect your leadership at home and at work. Register here: https://www.ambitiousdads.com/better-dad-better-leader

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From Absent Father to Present Dad: Building Emotional Intelligence While Growing a Business: Edward Rivera

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 20 May 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Edward Rivera shares his powerful journey of breaking generational cycles, building emotional regulation skills, and creating the family presence he never had growing up. This conversation dives deep into practical strategies for managing anger, communicating vulnerably with children, and balancing entrepreneurship with intentional fatherhood.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:02:44] - Intentional Business Growth for Family Presence

Edward explains how he structured his 10-year business journey to avoid becoming an absent father
Key quote: "I didn't want to be that guy 20 years deep, right? Didn't know his kids and stuff."

[00:04:59] - Breaking Generational Cycles

Discussion of Edward's relationship with his absent father and commitment to being present
Key quote: "I always told myself, when I have a family and kids, I'm going to do my best to try to be there as much as possible."

[00:07:22] - Managing Inherited Anger Triggers

Edward shares how he catches himself in moments of road rage and family protection instincts
Key quote: "I'll have this inner dialogue right in the moment too. I was like, all right, calm down. It's not big deal."

[00:08:54] - Early Therapy and Self-Regulation Skills

Childhood therapy experience that taught breathing techniques and emotional regulation
Key quote: "She was like, you, you're growing up too fast. Try to be a kid. Just do kid things."

[00:12:09] - The Relationship Turning Point

Edward's realization during an argument with his wife that led to years of communication work
Key quote: "I remember she started crying and I was like, holy crap. I felt like shit. You know what I mean? I'm like, what am I doing?"

[00:15:02] - The Coffee Bean Philosophy

Explanation of how Edward approaches every interaction with positivity and service
Key quote: "Every environment you go into, every person you have interaction with, try to spread positivity, love, try to serve others."

[00:19:46] - Emotional Regulation Strategies

Edward's practical approach to managing bad moods and protecting family from negative energy
Key quote: "I've even texted my team before, Hey, I'm in a bad mood. I'm going to be no good to anybody right now."

[00:20:52] - Teaching Emotional Intelligence to Children

How Edward and his wife model vulnerability and emotional processing for their kids
Key quote: "We try to be as open, as transparent as we can with the kids at a safe level, not trying to stress them out and trauma dump on 'em."

[00:25:35] - Homeschooling Decision and Partnership

The family's choice to homeschool and how Edward supports his wife's educational leadership
Key quote: "I feel so blessed now to finally get to this point where I'll be able to help sometimes."

[00:32:57] - The Power of Vulnerable Male Friendships

Edward emphasizes the importance of having men to talk to about struggles and mistakes
Key quote: "The biggest thing, again, man, is finding other men who are willing to talk about these things and being vulnerable."

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From Hollywood to Humble Parenting: Randy Spelling on Raising Teenage Daughters with Curiosity and Grace

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Sun, 26 Apr 2026 11:00:00 -0400

Former actor Randy Spelling opens up about the realities of parenting two teenage daughters while navigating his own transformation from addiction to authentic fatherhood. In this honest conversation, Randy shares practical wisdom on listening versus solving, embracing failure as a teaching tool, and how his past mistakes became the foundation for deeper connections with his kids.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:27] - Updating Your Vision of Your Kids

Randy discusses the challenge of relating to daughters as they grow and change
Key quote: "There are still parts of her brain that are not online yet. There are still synaptic connections that physiologically are not there putting things together."

[00:03:35] - Listening vs. Solving: The Dad Dilemma

Explores how men's natural problem-solving instincts can interfere with emotional connection
Key quote: "Get really curious about the being in front of you... How can I see them and meet them where they're at?"

[00:07:53] - Managing Morning Moods Without Taking It Personally

Randy shares how he handles his daughter's grumpiness by changing his own energy first
Key quote: "This has nothing to do with you. Just get curious or just be there. Just hold space."

[00:10:28] - Sharing Your Past Mistakes with Kids

Discussion on age-appropriate honesty about personal struggles and addiction
Key quote: "I had to trust that my relationship was strong enough and close enough that they see me now I can share my past."

[00:19:27] - Encouraging Failure as a Learning Tool

How to reframe failure as experimentation and growth opportunities
Key quote: "Failures are catalysts... you have to try something and have it not work out to know what you need to change."

[00:22:18] - The Shame Cycle of Parental Mistakes

Randy shares personal examples of everyday mistakes and internal shame dialogue
Key quote: "You made a mistake. You did the best that you could... This says nothing about your character."

[00:34:19] - Co-Parenting Through Different Perspectives

Navigating different parenting styles and finding middle ground through shared values
Key quote: "The sweet spot is where can you agree and come to the middle based off of values?"

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

Curiosity and genuine listening are more powerful than trying to solve every problem your kids present.
Age-appropriate honesty about your past mistakes can strengthen rather than weaken your relationship with your children.
Encouraging failure and reframing it as learning helps build resilience in kids.
Managing your own emotional state directly impacts your children's energy and responses.
Co-parenting works best when you focus on shared values rather than rigid rules.
Self-compassion modeling teaches children how to treat themselves when they make mistakes.

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Building Legacy Through Intentional Fatherhood with Brandon Harrison

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Sun, 26 Apr 2026 09:00:00 -0400

Brandon Harrison, CEO and father of three, shares his journey of intentional parenting after losing his father at 63. From managing three kids four years apart to taking solo cruises for self-care, Brandon offers honest insights on emotional regulation, mentorship, and building a lasting legacy as a father.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:02:06] - Managing Three Different Personalities

Discussion on parenting three children who are four years apart with completely different needs
Key quote: "My big word for myself is intentionality. I'm really focused on acknowledging their differences and really focusing on that."

[00:04:28] - Individual Time with Each Child

Brandon explains his approach to one-on-one time, including zoo dates with his daughter and community walks with his middle son
Key quote: "I don't just say, okay, everybody, let's go to the zoo, because our oldest son doesn't like that anymore."

[00:09:37] - Self-Care and Solo Retreats

How Brandon and his wife prioritize individual time off, including solo cruises and personal activities
Key quote: "I'm going on two solo cruises this year. My wife and I just started that a few years ago and we realized that we both have a lot going on."

[00:17:39] - Impact of Losing His Father

Brandon shares how his father's sudden death at 63 transformed his approach to fatherhood
Key quote: "That really changed my thinking of fatherhood, of like, okay, I need to make sure that I'm learning from older fathers, but I'm so intentional with my kids because I never know how long I have."

[00:22:03] - Breaking Generational Patterns

Discussion on helping other fathers overcome father wounds and develop emotional vulnerability
Key quote: "You've got to force yourself to express to your spouse what you're actually feeling."

[00:28:28] - Learning Emotional Regulation as a Young Father

Brandon's honest account of becoming a father at 22 and learning to manage emotions through parenting
Key quote: "I'm still growing into being better at that. Honestly, I have not mastered that part of my emotions."

[00:35:36] - Current Fatherhood Concerns

What keeps Brandon up at night: friend influences, college preparation, and preparing kids for an uncertain future
Key quote: "I only have two more years left with this oldest. And I'm like, I feel like I'm not as far along as I want to be with him."

[00:39:15] - Legacy Over Money

Brandon's reflection on what kind of legacy he wants to leave as a father beyond financial provision
Key quote: "I really want to leave a legacy for my children, not just money... really what you leave in them as people."

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

Intentionality is the key difference between good and great fatherhood - actively adapting to each child's unique needs and developmental stage.
Self-care isn't selfish - both parents need individual time to recharge and maintain their identity outside of parenting.
Vulnerability and honest conversations with other fathers create stronger support networks and better parenting outcomes.
Losing a parent young can transform your approach to fatherhood, emphasizing presence over just provision.
Legacy is about the values and character you instill in your children, not just the financial security you provide.

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Strategic Absence & Second Chances: A CFP's Journey Through Paternity Leave & Intentional Fatherhood

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Sat, 25 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Mark Willis, a certified financial planner and father of two, shares his experience taking paternity leave as a business owner while welcoming his second daughter 10 years after his first. He discusses the challenges of rebalancing family life, the power of strategic absence in both business and parenting, and how intentionality transforms the parenting experience. From financial wisdom for families to the messy realities of newborn life, this conversation offers practical insights for ambitious dads navigating work-life integration.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:18] - Taking Paternity Leave as a Business Owner

Mark discusses the blessing and curse of naming your own time off as an entrepreneur
Key quote: "I don't really have the word retirement in my own vocabulary. To retire means to put out of service, and I don't want that for me"

[00:04:59] - The Power of Strategic Absence

How stepping away from business and parenting can create growth and reduce anxiety
Key quote: "If you feel like you're the one that has to show up and tie everybody's shoes for the rest of their life, you're going to have a 30-year-old come over to your house every day asking, Hey, dad, can you still tie my shoes"

[00:07:43] - Parenting Children of Different Ages

Managing the balance between pulling children toward your heart and letting them fly
Key quote: "Children are like a quiver of arrows... you put it in the bow and you pull it toward your heart, and then you have to let it go"

[00:16:13] - Redefining Daily Rhythms with a Newborn

The challenge of losing structure and predictability when welcoming a new baby
Key quote: "The biggest thing that I have found in my life in these last three months has just been the reorientation of our daily cycle"

[00:21:33] - Doing Parenthood Differently the Second Time

The importance of intentional preparation and treating parenting like a part-time job
Key quote: "The best gift you can give your child is another sibling"

[00:24:23] - The Principle of Intentional Living

How being hard on yourself makes the world easier
Key quote: "If you're easy on yourself, the world is hard. If you're hard on yourself, the world is easy"

[00:30:03] - Financial Planning for Families

Teaching children about money, entrepreneurship, and delayed gratification
Key quote: "You don't want to just prepare the money for the kids. You must prepare the kids for the money"

[00:36:49] - Practical Savings Strategies

Starting small and gradually increasing savings rates over time
Key quote: "What if you're listening to this and you're feeling overwhelmed, 30% is way too much. Don't eat that elephant"

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

Strategic absence in both business and parenting allows others to grow and reduces your anxiety.
Great dads are intentional - they plan, prepare, and treat parenting as seriously as their careers.
Financial health requires starting where you are and gradually increasing savings rates over time.
Different aged children require different expectations and consequences
The transition to multiple children requires intentional effort to maintain connection with your spouse.
Teaching children entrepreneurial thinking prepares them for an uncertain future.

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

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From Fighting for Access to Fighting Less: A Dad's Journey Through Divorce and Redemption: Richard Resnick

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Mon, 09 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Richard Resnick shares his raw and vulnerable journey as a divorced father fighting for access to his children. After years of court battles and emotional turmoil, he discovered that sometimes the best way to win is to stop fighting. This powerful conversation explores parental regret, the redefinition of providing, and how showing up consistently can rebuild even the most fractured relationships.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:59] - The Early Years of Divorce

Richard discusses splitting from his former wife when kids were 3 and 1 years old
Seven years of court battles and hundreds of thousands in legal fees
Key quote: "The child's identity is simply sort of the summation of their judgments of their two parents. So in fighting like that, you are giving them an identity and it's not one that they asked for."

[00:07:30] - The Game-Changing Advice

A court mediator's profound counsel that shifted everything
Learning that fighting less matters more than winning more time
Key quote: "It matters less how much time you have with the kids. It matters more that you and your former wife just stop fighting about anything and everything."

[00:12:16] - The Mindset Shift

How Richard immediately embraced the counterintuitive advice
Dealing with criticism from supporters who felt he "gave up"
Key quote: "There is justice for these two little children. There is justice and here it is."

[00:15:40] - Modern Parenting Anxieties

Concerns about launching adult children in today's uncertain economy
The broken promise of the American middle class playbook
Key quote: "What keeps me up is when I graduated from college in 1994, there was sort of pretty clear playbook for how to start... there's just so much uncertainty about that playbook now."

[00:21:04] - Managing Parental Guilt and Ego

Compartmentalizing pain while staying committed to showing up
Reframing the struggle as a "righteous fight" rather than victimhood
Key quote: "I felt like I was fighting for fairness for the children to have access to their father, which I know was important."

[00:25:54] - The Provider's Dilemma

Missing games and events while running a demanding company
His son going "dark" for months in response to dad's absence
Key quote: "You show up dudes, you show up, you just don't give up, you show up, you keep going, you keep asking, and we're back."

[00:30:07] - The Impossible Middle

Balancing financial obligations with presence
The psychological ease of choosing work over painful family dynamics
Key quote: "I could spend more time with you if I chose to make less money, but I can't. I owe all these bills for you."

[00:32:27] - Parental Regret as Fuel

Processing the reality that things could have been different
Using regret constructively to improve current relationships
Key quote: "You can walk around with that sadness, that regret, but if it helps you to do something positive... then maybe that regret is a fuel as well."

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From Secret Service to Surrogacy: A Dad's Journey Through Grief, Growth, and Building Legacy: Cory Allen

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 06 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0500

Former Secret Service agent Corey Allen opens up about his unconventional path to fatherhood through surrogacy, including the grief of miscarriages and the challenges of balancing work, family, and aging parents. He shares how becoming a dad transformed his patience, led him to write a children's book about travel, and taught him to embrace flexibility while building meaningful legacy for his children.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:43] - The Surrogacy Journey

Discussion of 5-year fertility journey including cultural considerations and multiple setbacks
Key quote: "Nobody prepared us for the grief that came with having transfers... nobody prepared us for two miscarriages."

[00:06:17] - Navigating Non-Biological Parenthood

How couples handle rejection and different parenting instincts when one parent isn't biological
Key quote: "We just have to do those check-ins... making sure we're checking in because it's not easy to witness or to experience."

[00:09:40] - The Sandwich Generation Challenge

Managing elderly parents on both coasts while raising toddler and expecting second child
Key quote: "Something about the American baby boomer generation. Some of them just don't really have the ability to think beyond themselves."

[00:14:13] - Writing "Data Takes a Trip"

Creating children's book to help explain work travel and maintain connection
Key quote: "I would love to have a book that explains dadada has to leave, but he'll be back. He loves you."

[00:22:04] - Learning from Parenting Mistakes

Recognizing how children mirror our behaviors and the need for immediate change
Key quote: "I was fighting my own attributes... I was dealing with my own personality. He's got those attributes."

[00:26:15] - Growing Patience as a Parent

Strategies for managing frustration and developing flexibility with toddler behavior
Key quote: "I have to literally take a deep breath, exhale purposefully. And that usually does it for me."

[00:30:58] - Fears About Mortality and Legacy

Concerns about being present for children's milestones and creating lasting impact
Key quote: "I'm just worrying about that a lot... the kids are young and if I pass away tomorrow, they're not going to have those core memories."

[00:38:05] - The Pull-Up Diaper Disaster

Humorous story about discovering pull-tab feature during messy diaper change
Key quote: "There is poo everywhere. I'm like, how are there no quick release on these stupid pull up diapers?"

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Navigating Fatherhood Through Separation: A Sales Executive's Journey of Balance and Growth: Dominic Hithon

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 04 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0500

Sales executive and father of two Dominic Hithon opens up about the real challenges of modern fatherhood - from managing technology with kids of different ages to co-parenting after separation. He shares honest insights about setting boundaries at work, the importance of being vulnerable with your children, and how to maintain strong relationships while building a career that requires constant travel.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:20] - Family Structure and Challenges

Dominic shares his family dynamic: 17-year-old daughter pursuing forensic science, 8-year-old son on the spectrum, managing separation and two households
Key quote: "It's just kind of balancing that relationship of being in the home. We were together 10 years in our relationship and then now managing it as two separate households."

[00:02:17] - Modern Parenting Anxieties

Discussion of daily challenges including school safety, social media influence, and protecting children from desensitization
Key quote: "In America, we had 48 school shootings last year. There's bullying and me in the world that I work in corporate America, I just know some of the unconscious bias that my children will face out there in this world."

[00:04:32] - Technology Generation Gap

Comparing how his daughter grew up with limited tech versus his son who had devices from birth
Key quote: "My son, he had tablet and the phone pretty much out of the womb. The first thing is they're pressing buttons and it's to the point where he'll tell me stuff, he'll be like, I want to go to Ikea. And I'll be like, what makes you go to Ikea? He's like, because I saw an ad for it."

[00:08:50] - Work Travel and Family Balance

Managing a demanding sales career that requires frequent travel while maintaining family connections
Key quote: "I try to let them know the best thing about it is you'll get to start seeing the world... But I said, that's the part of life that you'll have to balance because you'll be doing something and then you'll have a partner or anybody else."

[00:17:56] - Transitioning Between Work and Dad Mode

Strategies for switching from executive problem-solver to empathetic father
Key quote: "In business, I'm there to fix it, find the problem, do it. As a father, I'm there to understand it and speak to it, but I'm not always there to fix it because if I fix everything, they'll never feel as if they can do it themselves."

[00:21:14] - Creating Boundaries with Leadership

Setting work-life boundaries, even with demanding executives
Key quote: "Sometimes I'll even tell my CEO, I'll just be like, Hey, I'm in dad time, so I'm not going to answer you texting me right now."

[00:30:46] - Co-Parenting Challenges and Solutions

Navigating different household rules and maintaining family unity after separation
Key quote: "You had a relationship with this person, but you are out of the relationship with this person... So it's very much where I just try to make sure that they feel that time when I do have them, it doesn't change the dynamic as far as how I feel and care about them."

[00:34:29] - Vulnerability and Growth as a Father

The importance of showing children that parents are also learning and growing
Key quote: "I think it is okay to sometimes just say, I'm learning as I'm teaching you at the same time... Sometimes I didn't know everything, so I want them to understand that I'm learning and growing at the same time just at different speeds."

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

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The Intentional Dad Building Family Through Adoption, Values, and Vulnerability with Elliott Blodgett

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 11 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0500

Elliot Blodgett, performance coach and father of two adopted children, shares his unique journey into fatherhood and how intentionality shapes every aspect of his parenting. From creating family value songs to navigating the complexities of raising Black children as a white father, Elliot offers profound insights on letting go of ego, redefining success, and building authentic connections with our kids.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:01:30] - The Non-Traditional Path to Fatherhood

Elliot shares his adoption journey and letting go of the ego around biological children
Key quote: "I finally lost my ego. My wife was always for adoption. I always thought we would have children of our own if we did. And I stripped that away and said yes to family."

[00:03:13] - Parenting with Intentionality

Discussion on how adoption creates intentional parenting and community choices
Key quote: "The community is by choice. Both of my kids are not white. So we've moved houses, made some intentional financial decisions to make sure that we're in a community where families look like ours."

[00:06:41] - Stripping Away Ego in Fatherhood

How traditional upbringing shaped his ego and how fatherhood transformed his perspective
Key quote: "That ego was really disappearing because it wasn't about me anymore. It was about something so much bigger. It was about my wife and caring for her, it was about my kids and caring for them."

[00:11:26] - Redefining Success for the Next Generation

Moving from results-oriented expectations to exposure and discovery-based parenting
Key quote: "I want my kids to do well, and I put resources towards the opportunities that make the most sense for them... It's just exposure, not necessarily the pressure of be the best at it."

[00:18:05] - Teaching Kids to Do Hard Things

Strategies for helping children push through challenges and build resilience
Key quote: "Hard things are worth doing, and we use that all the time. It is okay to do a hard thing and we have to learn how to do a hard thing because in school and in life, you're going to run into those situations."

[00:29:25] - The Family Values Song

Creative approach to instilling family values through music and storytelling
Key quote: "We have a song. I had a song created... our family value song is something that we play on a regular basis in our house, so they get to hear those things."

[00:32:15] - What Keeps Him Up at Night

Honest discussion about the unique challenges of raising Black children as a white father
Key quote: "My kids will not grow up the same way that I grew up, oblivious to the world around them, and that world around them continues to change and shift and become divided, and I worry about that."

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Reclaiming Inner Ambition: How One Dad Ditched the Default Path w/ Paul Millard

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 28 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0500

Paul Millard, author of "The Pathless Path" and "Good Work," shares his journey from high-powered consultant to self-employed writer and father. He explores how becoming a dad to a 2.5-year-old has reshaped his understanding of ambition - moving from external markers of success to inner fire and authentic connection. This conversation dives deep into emotional regulation as a parent, building a life around your values, and why the best thing we can do for our kids is model the life we actually want to live.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

[00:03:23] - Learning Ambition from a Toddler

Paul describes how his 2.5-year-old daughter embodies pure inner ambition - dancing with complete abandon and zero concern for others' opinions
Key quote: "She is incredibly ambitious exactly about what she wants to do to the most extreme degree possible... This is sort of what I'm calling inner ambition, which is just this natural fire that humans have"

[00:05:30] - Modeling vs. Worrying About Kids

Discussion on how parents can influence children through their own behavior rather than constant worry about rules and guidelines
Key quote: "If I'm actually doing the things I care about, that's going to be a powerful example... I can be not a negative influence"

[00:13:11] - Emotional Work Before Parenthood

Paul explains how he deliberately worked on emotional resilience and capacity before having children, viewing these as more valuable skills than making money
Key quote: "This is what I worked on before I had a kid. I was spending all my time not working, developing emotional resilience, developing capacity"

[00:19:36] - Understanding Triggers as a Parent

Deep dive into what triggers are and how to handle them when children are having meltdowns
Key quote: "When your child is crying and you want them to stop, you've been triggered"

[00:22:24] - The Power of Emotional Validation

Paul shares techniques for validating children's emotions rather than dismissing them
Key quote: "If all your feelings are valid... just being seen and accepted for what you're feeling is such a powerful thing because few people ever experience that"

[00:35:19] - The Reality of Creativity After Kids

Honest discussion about how having children has actually made Paul's work more challenging, not easier
Key quote: "I hear all these dads that are like, oh, I had a kid and I'm doing better than ever. I don't know. This has not been the case for me"

[00:39:27] - Redefining Success as a Father

Paul's vision of success: spending abundant time with his daughter while maintaining creative work
Key quote: "If I can spend a lot of time with my kids, I feel like that's going to be super fun, satisfying and not something I'll regret when I'm older"

[00:41:51] - True Ambition Feels Light

Reading from his book about what authentic ambition actually feels like
Key quote: "Following your own true path does not feel like we might expect ambition to feel. It does not come with pain, contraction, or endless suffering. Instead, it feels light, it feels natural"

[00:56:39] - Rejecting Traditional Dad Expectations

Critique of the cultural expectation that dads should just "grind" for their families
Key quote: "Separate yourself from your kids at the most fun years possible and go earn a paycheck and shut up about your emotions. It's dumb, it's stupid"

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Balancing Ambition and Fatherhood with Maurice Philogene: An Ambitious Dad's Journey

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 21 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Ambitious Dads, host Jeff Hittner sits down with Maurice Philogene, a multifaceted professional whose resume spans federal agent, police officer, real estate investor, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and world traveler. But beyond all those titles, Maurice shares his most meaningful role: being a father to two sons.

We talk honestly about what it takes to balance ambitious careers with being a present and intentional parent — the conscious choices, the

challenges of deployment, and the moments that test you in ways no job description ever could. Maurice opens up about raising kids across

continents, fostering independence, and instilling values like resilience, happiness, and financial literacy. What stood out most is Maurice’s belief that life should be experienced fully — and that parenting is about preparing kids for the world, not shielding them from it. This conversation is a reminder that ambition and fatherhood aren’t opposites; they can coexist with intention and purpose.

If you’ve ever wondered how to chase big goals without losing sight of what matters most... you’re not alone.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

Balancing ambition with intentional fatherhood

Raising kids across continents and cultures

Instilling resilience, independence, and financial literacy

Navigating fear and modern parenting challenges

Why happiness and purpose matter more than success

How intentional experiences shape family life

About My Guest

Maurice is a father of two and a seasoned professional with experience as a federal agent, police officer, real estate investor, entrepreneur,

philanthropist, and world traveler. His greatest ambition? Raising his sons to be independent, resilient, and good human beings.

Episode Timestamps

00:00 Introduction to Ambitious Dads Podcast

00:46 Meet Maurice: A Man of Many Lives

01:38 Balancing Ambition and Fatherhood

02:07 Maurice's Career Journey

04:54 Raising Kids Across Continents

09:59 Instilling Values and Resilience

12:06 Navigating Fear and Independence

16:33 The Importance of Happiness and Purpose

21:18 Balancing Free Time and Intentional Parenting

22:05 Challenges of Deployment and Parenting

23:14 Evolving Communication with Kids

24:41 Managing Personal and Parental Challenges

27:01 Listening to Your Kids' Voices

28:04 Navigating Modern Parenting Issues

35:29 Intentional Travel and Experiences

40:11 Expanding Intentionally in Life and Parenting

41:25 Conclusion and Reflections on Fatherhood

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From Foster Care to Fatherhood: Rewriting Family Patterns with Braxton Storm

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Mon, 19 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0500

Licensed clinical social worker and parenting coach Braxton Storm shares his powerful journey from growing up in California's foster care system to becoming a father of three (soon to be four) children. In this vulnerable conversation, Braxton explores how his childhood experiences shape his approach to helping parents build calmer, more connected homes, the importance of emotional regulation, and why "messy is normal" when it comes to raising emotionally healthy kids.

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Redefining Ambition: A Leadership Expert's Journey to Fatherhood-Work Harmony w/ James Boddy

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Thu, 15 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0500

James Boddy, a Harvard-trained leadership consultant and former UK barrister, shares his transformative journey from viewing ambition as a "dirty word" to embracing authentic success while being a present father. This honest conversation explores the challenges of leading a growing company while raising two children, the importance of self-awareness in breaking generational patterns, and practical strategies for achieving work-life harmony rather than balance.

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Finding Aliveness: How to Decouple Identity from Achievement as a Dad with Khe Hy

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 26 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner welcomes Khe Hy, a former Wall Street Managing Director who left behind a lucrative career to focus on creativity, presence, and fatherhood. Khe shares his journey of evolving through three distinct chapters of life: his pre-fatherhood years, the transformative period of active parenting, and his current entrepreneurial pursuits in AI. He discusses the emotional complexities of watching his children grow and the bittersweet nature of the "magic window" of early childhood, where he felt most needed.

Khe reflects on the challenges of balancing ambition with the desire to foster intrinsic motivation in his daughters, as well as the importance of modeling emotional growth and resilience. He delves into the concept of internal family systems and how it has influenced his understanding of emotions and relationships. The conversation touches on fears surrounding modern parenting, including issues like cyberbullying and societal pressures related to body image. Khe emphasizes the significance of living authentically and following one's passions, rather than seeking validation through external achievements. The episode concludes with a humorous anecdote about a chaotic flight experience with his young daughter, highlighting the messy realities of parenthood.

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From Control to Connection: A Dad's Journey in a Blended Family with Dave Inglis

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 19 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner welcomes his friend and neighbor, Dave Inglis, a Canadian executive and couples coach living in Valencia, Spain. The conversation delves into the complexities of blended family dynamics, as Dave shares his journey of becoming a stepdad to two teenagers while also welcoming a biological son, Will. He reflects on the challenges and joys of navigating relationships with his wife Jen and her ex-husband, Aaron, emphasizing the importance of non-attachment and flexibility in parenting. The discussion also touches on the significance of solitude and self-inquiry in personal growth, as Dave reveals his unique practices inspired by shamanism. Throughout the episode, the two dads explore the messy realities of fatherhood, including humorous anecdotes and the ongoing evolution of their roles as parents.

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Raising Resilient Kids: Insights from Entrepreneur and Dad, Robert Glazer

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 12 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner welcomes Bob Glazer, the founder and chairman of Acceleration Partners, a leader in partnership marketing. Bob, a serial entrepreneur and author of seven books, shares his insights on fatherhood, parenting challenges, and the importance of instilling values in children. With three kids nearing adulthood, he discusses his concerns about their preparedness for the realities of the world, particularly in a tech-driven society.

Bob emphasizes the significance of work ethic, responsibility, and the need for children to experience struggle to develop resilience. He also reflects on his own parenting journey, sharing personal anecdotes about balancing career ambitions with family life and the lessons learned from his experiences. The conversation touches on the importance of setting clear expectations, fostering open communication, and allowing children to learn from their mistakes. Throughout the episode, Bob advocates for intentional parenting and the value of leading by example, encouraging fathers to engage in meaningful conversations with their children about success and personal growth.

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Courageous Fatherhood: Learning, Loving, and Growing Through Challenges: Morgan Rich

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 05 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner engages in a heartfelt conversation with Morgan Rich, a coach and facilitator dedicated to supporting men in navigating their inner struggles and finding purpose. Morgan, a father of two adult children and author of the book "The Invitation Beyond: Reclaiming Healthy Masculinity," shares his insights on fatherhood, personal growth, and the complexities of modern parenting.

The discussion begins with Morgan reflecting on the challenges he faced during his journey as a father, particularly after his separation from his children's mother when they were in high school. He candidly discusses the emotional rift that developed between him and his daughter, who felt betrayed by his new relationship. Morgan emphasizes the importance of being present and navigating the ups and downs of fatherhood, highlighting how his own experiences with loss and trauma shaped his approach to parenting.

Morgan recounts the profound moments of connection he shared with his children, particularly the simple yet meaningful times spent reading bedtime stories. He expresses a deep appreciation for these fleeting moments and the love he felt for his children, acknowledging the unpredictability of life and the importance of savoring each experience.

As the conversation progresses, Morgan shares the deliberate process he undertook to mend his relationship with his daughter. He emphasizes the significance of patience and self-care, recognizing that his daughter's struggles were part of her journey into adulthood. Morgan's commitment to maintaining open lines of communication and offering unconditional love ultimately led to a reconciliation, demonstrating that fatherhood is not about perfection but about being present and learning from challenges.

The episode also delves into the dynamics of co-parenting, with Morgan reflecting on his experiences during and after his marriage. He acknowledges the difficulties of communication and the importance of being honest about one's feelings. Morgan's journey of self-discovery and personal growth, including participation in men's retreats and shadow work, has equipped him to show up as a better father and role model.

Throughout the episode, Morgan emphasizes the need for fathers to embrace vulnerability and the messiness of parenthood. He shares a humorous yet relatable story about being barfed on by his young son during a flight, illustrating the unpredictable nature of parenting and the importance of finding humor in challenging situations.

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The Emotional Landscape of Fatherhood: Conversations on Shame, Triggers, and Connection: Dr. Kelly Flanagan

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Mon, 03 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a clinical psychologist, author, and father of three. The discussion centers around the challenges and emotional complexities of fatherhood, particularly as children grow into young adults.

Jeff opens the episode by emphasizing the importance of honest conversations among fathers about their fears, ambitions, and the realities of parenting. He introduces Kelly, who shares insights from his experiences as a father and a mental health professional. Kelly reflects on his own parenting journey, noting that despite having a 22-year-old son, Aiden, who is pursuing a career in comedy, the challenges of parenting do not diminish but rather evolve over time. He discusses the emotional energy invested in each of his children, highlighting the need for balance and attention among them.

The conversation delves into the concept of emotional energy and how it varies among children. Kelly shares his realization that as his children grow older, the time spent with them becomes more precious, prompting him to prioritize their emotional needs over work commitments. He acknowledges the ongoing challenges of parenting, regardless of the children's ages, and the importance of being present in their lives.

As the discussion progresses, Kelly opens up about a pivotal moment in his marriage during a particularly stressful time in their lives. He recounts how the COVID-19 pandemic triggered significant stress and emotional turmoil, leading him to a transformative realization about the importance of keeping his heart open. Inspired by Michael Singer's book, "The Untethered Soul," Kelly adopted a New Year's resolution to notice when his heart was closing and to actively work on opening it back up. This practice has since become a cornerstone of his approach to relationships, including those with his wife and children.

Jeff and Kelly explore the nuances of emotional expression, particularly the cultural stigma surrounding sadness. They discuss how children naturally express their emotions and the importance of creating a safe space for them to do so. Kelly emphasizes that sadness is a natural emotion that should be embraced rather than suppressed, as it can lead to greater emotional openness and connection.

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The Importance of Self-Care for Dads: Lessons in Mental Wellness & Parenting: Michael Grose

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 31 Oct 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Michael Grose, a prominent Australian parenting educator and author of twelve books on parenting. With a background as a former teacher, Michael shares his journey into parenting education, which began unexpectedly while pursuing a master's degree in education. He discusses how his experiences as a teacher and a father to three adult children have shaped his insights into parenting.

The episode delves into the evolving landscape of parenting, highlighting the shift from traditional discipline and behavior management to a focus on resilience, emotional regulation, and the challenges posed by the digital age. Michael emphasizes the importance of parents being aware of their own mental health and wellness, as it directly impacts their children. He advocates for the necessity of self-care and the establishment of personal time for parents, encouraging dads to prioritize their own needs alongside their parenting responsibilities.

Michael and Jeff explore the differences in parenting styles between mothers and fathers, noting that mothers often provide nurturing and emotional support, while fathers tend to encourage independence and problem-solving. This dynamic is crucial for children's development, as it allows them to learn from both parental figures. Michael also addresses the common fears fathers have regarding their children's adolescence, offering insights on how to maintain connections during this challenging phase.

Throughout the episode, Michael shares practical strategies for effective discipline, emphasizing the importance of teaching children about choices and consequences. He highlights the value of positive reinforcement and consistent communication, suggesting that parents should catch their children doing the right thing and guide them in resolving conflicts.

As the conversation unfolds, Michael reflects on the impact of COVID-19 on children's mental health and development, noting the long-term effects of isolation and the need for parents to adapt their approaches to parenting in a post-pandemic world. The episode concludes with a call for fathers to embrace their unique roles and responsibilities, fostering a supportive environment for their children while also taking care of their own well-being.

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Tom Critchlow on Parenting, Road Trips, and Work-Life Harmony

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 01 Oct 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we sit down with Tom Critchlow to delve into the art of juggling professional ambitions with the beautiful chaos of fatherhood.

In this episode, Tom shares his unique journey from being an independent consultant to transitioning back into the corporate world—all while taking his family on a year-and-a-half road trip during the COVID pandemic. 🚗🏞️ Discover how owning his schedule allowed him to be present for precious family moments, like bath time with his kids.

We explore the evolving landscape of parenting in a tech-saturated era, where explaining abstract job roles to young minds requires creativity and patience. From the humorous side of parenting—think projectile vomiting—to the importance of unstructured play, this episode is packed with candid insights and personal stories.

Tom opens up about the unexpected joys and challenges of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of real conversations about these experiences. Whether you're an ambitious dad striving to nurture meaningful family connections or simply looking for inspiration, this episode is for you.

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Balancing Fatherhood and Entrepreneurship: Jean-Luc Zehnder

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 24 Sep 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Join us as we dive into the unique experience of navigating parenthood while leading a startup.

When Jean-Luc Zehnder founded his company, Virtido, in the same month his first child was born, he found himself nurturing two newborns: a business and a baby. In this episode, Jean-Luc opens up about the raw challenges of managing a growing family alongside a budding enterprise.

Here’s what you can expect:

🔹 Jean-Luc’s insights into balancing the financial uncertainties and lifestyle adjustments necessary for work-life harmony, including downsizing their home for stability.🔹 A candid look at the dynamics of raising three boys and the importance of recognizing each child's unique role within the family.🔹 Strategies for building a supportive work culture and the significance of mental fitness in personal and professional realms.🔹 Reflections on maintaining a healthy partnership and the struggles of letting go as a parent.

Jean-Luc's personal stories provide encouragement and valuable insights for entrepreneurial dads, especially those navigating parenthood without local family support.

🎧 Tune in now to gain heartfelt parenting insights and learn how to thrive with both a newborn and a new business.

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Navigating Blended Families and Fatherhood in the Modern Age: Kelly Griego

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 19 Sep 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this heartfelt episode, we feature Kelly Griego, an endurance athlete, leadership professional, and devoted family man. Kelly opens up about his experience as a bonus dad to three teenagers and shares valuable insights on building strong family bonds while managing a demanding professional life. He emphasizes the importance of stability, open communication, and the mantra of "no surprises" in creating a harmonious home.

Key highlights include:

The journey of merging families and becoming a bonus dad.
Redefining success beyond the workplace.
Navigating the challenges of parenting teenagers in the digital age.
Building lasting family traditions and values.

Whether you're a father, a professional, or both, this episode offers practical advice for realigning ambitions with family values and maintaining balance in today's fast-paced world. Tune in to explore how therapy, personal hobbies, and shared experiences can play a crucial role in achieving harmony between career and family.

🎧 Listen now to gain inspiration and practical tips for navigating fatherhood and career ambitions!

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Teaching Kids Through Life's Complex Lessons: Joshua Gillow

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 17 Sep 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Joshua Gillow opens up about his journey from working in his family's garden center to building successful landscaping businesses. He candidly shares his struggles with aligning professional goals with core family values, emphasizing the importance of introspection and emotional presence.

Key highlights include:

The transformative realization that led Joshua to align his ambitions with his true values.
Embracing emotional intelligence to connect deeply with family and raise empathetically grounded young men.
Touching stories of fostering responsibility and independence in his children through real-life lessons.
The significance of leading by example and practicing self-forgiveness in parenting.

Join us as Joshua shares valuable insights and personal anecdotes that underscore the importance of being present and allowing children to navigate life's challenges. Remember, every tomorrow offers a fresh start.

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The Ambitious Familyman: A Global Father's Journey Through Emotional Intelligence: Carl Manlan

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 01 Aug 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, Carl Manlan offers a refreshing perspective on how he and his wife, both thriving in the finance industry, manage to expose their children to diverse professional environments. Through storytelling, Carl reveals how he incorporates lessons from his work into his parenting, enriching his children's understanding of the world's complexities.

Key Highlights:

Discover how Carl guided his daughter in finding her voice and redefining success beyond traditional norms through exposure to inspiring individuals.
Learn about the importance of emotional expression and understanding within family dynamics, and how shared experiences like family road trips can forge deeper connections.
Gain insights into maintaining private time and managing emotions effectively, both at work and at home.

This episode is a thoughtful exploration of modern fatherhood and emotional intelligence, offering valuable lessons on balancing career ambition with family life. Whether you're a parent or a leader, Carl's journey will inspire you to craft unique paths for the next generation.

🎧 Tune in now and join us in redefining success in modern parenting!

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Embracing the Chaos and Joy of Parenting with Ambitious Dads Shantanu & Greg

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 25 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

🎙️ In this episode, we sit down with two incredible dads, Shantanu, a soon-to-be CFO in Chicago, and Greg, a strategy director in Denver. They share their candid experiences of navigating fatherhood alongside demanding careers, offering insights into setting boundaries and cherishing family time.

Topics we cover:🔹 The art of co-parenting and personal growth in fatherhood.🔹 The role of therapy in navigating emotional complexities.🔹 Intentional parenting in a multicultural family setting.🔹 The importance of community support and our Founding Fathers program.

Through humorous and honest anecdotes, Shantanu and Greg shine a light on the realities of parenting, celebrating the growth and fulfillment that come from embracing every chaotic and heartwarming moment.

Whether you're a new dad or seasoned parent, this episode is packed with relatable stories and valuable insights. Tune in on iTunes, Spotify, or YouTube for laughter, lessons, and fatherhood tales.

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Helping Men Reclaim Their Health & Happiness: Mitchell Osmond of The Dad Nation

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 18 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this compelling episode, guest Mitchell Osmond of The Dad Nation shares his transformative journey from feeling lost at home to finding balance between his career ambitions and family life. After a pivotal fight with his wife and a profound experience at a funeral, Mitchell was inspired to reassess the legacy he was leaving behind.

Join us as Mitchell discusses:

His struggle with depression, debt, and a dysfunctional upbringing.
The development of the "Iron Five" mentorship framework, emphasizing the power of community and mutual growth.
Strategies for balancing professional success with being a present and engaged father and husband.
Practical tools for emotional regulation and resilience in managing relationship conflicts.
The importance of meaningful connections and strategic conversations with loved ones.

Mitchell also shares a free resource to help deepen emotional connections with your partner through carefully crafted questions.

Don't miss this heartfelt exploration of reclaiming your home, health, and happiness. Tune in now and be inspired to create a meaningful legacy for your family.

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Redefining Success, Family Prioritization, a Conversation with Ambitious Dad, Rens van den Broek

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 11 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast, we sit down with leadership advisor Rens van den Broek to explore how he successfully navigates his high-paced career while prioritizing family life.

Rens challenges the notion that prioritizing loved ones negatively impacts career growth. He shares his personal philosophy of fostering open communication about family commitments in the workplace, inspiring others to seamlessly align personal and professional values. This episode is a treasure trove of insights on setting boundaries, embracing self-care, and redefining success through family prioritization.

Join us as we discuss:

The importance of clear communication with partners and colleagues.
Overcoming societal expectations and embracing shared parenting responsibilities.
Emotional regulation and its impact on children.
The challenges and triumphs of modern fatherhood.

Whether you're a working parent or aspire to balance your career and family life better, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice.

Tune in now and be inspired to cultivate mutual respect in work and home life! 🌟

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Raising Kids with Brain Science & Heart: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Melillo

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 04 Jul 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, "Raising Kids with Brain Science & Heart," we explore Dr. Robert Melillo's unique journey as a neuroscientist and father. Discover how his personal experiences with his children's ADHD and other neurodevelopmental challenges transformed his professional career and parenting philosophy.

Dr. Melillo shares valuable insights on:

Balancing professional ambition with personal growth as a father.
The critical role fathers play in early brain development.
How to address neurodevelopmental imbalances and nurture potential.
Embracing the whimsical, messy moments of fatherhood that offer profound learning opportunities.

Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone interested in the intricacies of brain science, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice to help you support the mental and emotional well-being of your children.

Tune in to hear Dr. Melillo's inspiring anecdotes and expert insights on nurturing a child's development with both brain science and heart.

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Navigating Parenthood's Emotional Journey: Prakash Raman

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 27 Jun 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, our special guest, Prakash Raman—a dedicated coach and father—shares his personal journey of defining family values and fostering a supportive community. We explore the delicate dance of nurturing family bonds while pursuing professional goals, and how tools like the emotions wheel can help modern dads navigate this complex landscape.

We dive deep into understanding children's emotions and behaviors, the impact of societal expectations, and the importance of candid feedback from family. Prakash and Jeff share strategies for managing emotional regulation, especially during high-stress moments, and reflect on the emotional growth that arises from parenting challenges.

Tune in as we discuss reconciling past experiences with our children's unique paths and crafting a realistic vision of success that balances career and family commitments. This episode is packed with insights and practical strategies for ambitious dads striving to be present and intentional in their parenting journey.

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

Tune in every week for a new episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast. Subscribe on:

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Anthony Trucks of American Ninja Warrior & the NFL on His Biggest Lessons in Fatherhood 🏈💪

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 20 Jun 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode, former NFL athlete and American Ninja Warrior, Anthony Trucks, shares his incredible journey through fatherhood, business, and personal growth. Anthony opens up about his commitment to being a role model for his children and the importance of authenticity and integrity in parenting.

Join us as we delve into:

The concept of "dark work" and setting boundaries as a cornerstone of effective parenting.
The challenges and strategies of raising children with unique needs, like ADHD.
Balancing guidance and allowing children to discover their own paths.
The humor and heart in the chaos of fatherhood, creating cherished family memories.
Instilling life skills over mere athletic achievements and nurturing a culture of effort and discipline.
Anthony's family's upcoming travel adventures across Asia, embracing experiences that broaden horizons and deepen connections. ✈️🌏

Don't miss out on this heartfelt and insightful conversation that highlights the profound impact of example-setting on the next generation. Whether you're a parent or aspiring to be one, Anthony's wisdom is sure to resonate with you.

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

Tune in every week for a new episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast. Subscribe on:

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Balancing Ambitions: A Roundtable Discussion on Modern Fatherhood: Chase Friedman & Ramphis Castro

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 13 Jun 2025 11:00:00 -0400

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast, we delve into the heart of modern fatherhood. Join us as Chase Friedman and Ramphis Castro, two inspiring dads from our Founding Fathers program, share their honest journeys of juggling professional dreams with family responsibilities.

🌟 In this episode, we explore:

🔹 The constant tug-of-war between work obligations and family life.🔹 How fatherhood has reshaped career paths and priorities.

🔹The rarity and necessity of open, vulnerable conversations among fathers.🔹The importance of supportive communities in navigating fatherhood.

Chase and Ramphis open up about their experiences in California and Puerto Rico, offering insights into the complexities of being a dad today. From the guilt of missed opportunities to the joy of precious family moments, they share it all.

👨‍👧‍👦 Whether you're a dad, a parent, or someone navigating work-life balance, this episode is for you. Discover the metaphorical roles we play in our children's lives and the impact of our upbringing on our parenting styles.

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

Tune in every week for a new episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast. Subscribe on:

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The Art of Fatherhood: Balancing Leadership, Embracing Emotions, & Raising Brave Children: Robert Mulhall

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Fri, 06 Jun 2025 11:00:00 -0400

Navigating the intricate dance between leadership and fatherhood? This week on Ambitious Dads, I'm thrilled to have an insightful conversation with Robert Mulhall, CEO of Kripalu. Together, we delve into the challenges and joys of balancing high-pressure leadership roles with the unpredictable demands of fatherhood.

🔹 Discover how Robert manages co-parenting his spirited seven-and-a-half-year-old son amidst work deadlines and snow days. He shares personal stories and valuable lessons on flexibility, emotional intelligence, and the power of apologies in parenting.

🔹 Learn about the evolving role of fathers as emotionally intelligent role models and the importance of self-affirmation. Inspired by Glennon Doyle’s "Untamed," we explore how nurturing our children's instincts and embracing their wild side can foster courage and emotional awareness.

🔹 Parenting is a journey filled with humorous twists and turns. We discuss the balance between guiding our children and allowing them the freedom to express themselves. Open dialogue can help break stigmas, fostering a more emotionally aware generation.

Join us for this enriching discussion on the art of fatherhood, where laughter and wisdom go hand in hand. 🎧

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

Tune in every week for a new episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast. Subscribe on:

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Trailer - Welcome to the Ambitious Dads Podcast!

noah@profitwithpodcasting.com (Jeff Hittner) — Wed, 21 May 2025 11:00:00 -0400

I didn’t start the Ambitious Dads Podcast because I had all the answers. I started it because I was asking the same questions most dads are. How do I show up better at home when work pulls me in a thousand directions? How do I break cycles I swore I wouldn’t repeat? How do I stay patient when I feel anything but? After a surprising infertility journey into fatherhood — and a lot of late-night doubts — I realized I couldn’t figure this out alone. So I started having conversations with other dads who were trying to live, lead, and love more intentionally. This podcast is an extension of those real talks. No posturing. No pretending. Just honest stories, lessons, struggles, and maybe a little hope that we’re all doing better than we think.

Connect with Jeff Hittner: https://jeffhittner.com

Tune in every week for a new episode of the Ambitious Dads Podcast. Subscribe on:

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ambitious-dads/id1815863328

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4xCHG30Ms9wcGRJmDqHcW8?si=46654ba2a0654099

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AmbitiousDads